True winning: How do I win?

 Winning...So sickening and heartbreaking when you do not know how to define it, how to reach it, or don't know what it is at all. The thought of it hits deeper to me like the thought of a beloved, because it's very necessary to win, especially as a woman. And then I think, "How do I win?, what do I do to win?, what is true winning? , will I win?".....and then finally "Will we all win?". 

Yes, "Will we all win?", I ask myself . This is thought provoking and almost  seems impossible to achieve. And the reality is that, yes we all can't win in society's perspective, but we can all win in our personal lives. We all can't be successful like society's definition for success, but we can be as wealthy as we want to be depending on what's written on our list of goals.

While we stay immersed deep in thoughts about winning, we should also focus on the patterns of winning because to me, winning is logical and so is failure. You only win when you are able to meet certain conditions, and you fail when you don't meet these requirements. Society's pattern of winning is different, but you are the only one who can define the pattern which leads to your wins. Do you want to win for society or for yourself?

The world of thoughts, is a place to reflect on our actions and current lifestyle. When we reflect, we think whether to improve or stay grounded in what we're doing currently. Don't be swayed by the noise of society such that you don't know how to win, because true wins is what fulfills you. Winning is about personal growth, happiness, a healthy mindset, and healthy bonds. The system creates winners who stay in its pattern, but true winners are those who are fulfilled by what they do.

"You know how to win"